What a weekend!

Wow - I had the best weekend ever!! It was my first working weekend at the Snatch and the girls were great. I think i made some really good friends (i'll post some snaps later). Theres KiKi, she's been dancing there for the longest, almost 2 years and really knows her way around the place. i can learn a lot from her. Then theres Twyla, she has been there for about a year. Shes not too bad. She has a lot of neat pole tricks and some really bitchin shoes (see snap below)!!! Silky just started a couple of months ago and already has some regulars. Shes really happy that she is not the new girl anymore. I just know we will be BFFs for a long time!

This is one pair of the shoes Twyla has - too bad her feet are way bigger than mine or i would be all over these!!!

Ernie started me out slow on Friday night with one dance but by Sat. night I was raring to go and did 3 performances! I did moves that i have not done in a long time. I had one wardrobe malfunksion when my gstring broke, but the crowd seemed to really enjoy it and I made a ton of money and just in time for the holidays!! Im trying to come up with a way to add some christmas music into my routine. Kiki really thought that was a good idea too. We are going to come up with a routine that everyone can do together for a christmas show - Ernie really liked the idea.

Well i gotta run - i let you know how thanksgiving goes - i will be cooking a turky for the first time, that is if my brother Clintus can kill one for us to eat!

Memory Box

After seeing my ex, i got to thinking about everything we had been through and decided to go through our "relationship memory box". i like to keep little momentos from relationships. I wasnt sure how i was going to handle it being so soon after we broke up but i did it and i can tell you - that shit hurt!!! Now i know that that Jennifer Aniston must feel everytime she sees her ex with that witch angelina! everyone says i could be Jens twin sister! I bet if she met me, we'd be great friends!

I can share some of the things, but most of them are for my eyes only. i have the straw from the grape slurpee he bought me when we first met. i have the stick from the corndog he bought me on our first date to the fair. i have the paper bag that my first gift from him came in (sorry, the gift is one of the things i cant share). i have the fork from our first real, fancy date. he picked me up in his friends trans am and took me out to a real nice dinner at Golden Corral. i have some flower petals from the arrangement he gave me (he found a real nice arrangement in the dumpster behind the funeral home). the rest of it is more the same - things that mark the happy times we had.

Oh, look at the time. I got to get ready to perform! Ill get back with more later!

Carlos

Well it happened - i saw my ex Carlos yesterday. I stopped by the corner store to pick up some smokes and treats for my kids. I go there a lot cause me and the owner have a special relationship. His wife died some time ago and I occassionally do "favors" for him, so he gives me discounts on what i buy! It works out great. So there he was, Carlos i mean, standin across the street, just watchin me.

You should know our history before you make up your mind. we met a couple of years ago, he was hanging out at the gas station with a bunch of his friends when me and my girls stopped for a grape slurpee. Right away i new he was different. Everyone warned me about him, they thought he was just lookin to get married so he could stay in the country, but i didnt think so. He paid for my slurpee and was a real gentleman. We had some really good times, he didnt speak english to good and I didnt understand half of what he was sayin, but our bodies new what to do!!! And the great thing was, he didnt have to work everyday, just when he wanted to. I told him all about my dream of opening up one of those fancy day spas and he thought that was a dang good idea too. We even had the floor plan all figured out - it was top notch all the way, first class! dont get me wrong, im still planning on doing it, it will just take me longer.

So after we got married and baby Jesus was born, Carlos got a little restless, he was always askin what time i would be home and how long i was going to be gone. i should have known somethin was up. Finally the lady that lives downstairs told me that we needed to stop being so loud when we were getting after it during the day, cause it was her nap time and she couldnt sleep. thats when i new what was giong on. that bastard was steppin out on me!!! Course he says its not true, but when i found his collection of panties in his closet, i new. Hes a DOG!!!

Hi all - sorry i did not post over the weekend, it was a busy one!! Seems Carlos forgot I was staying at the apartment and brought a woman there in the middle of the night!!! So i had to gather up the kids and get the heck outta there before they started gettin busy. I moved in with my brother out at the trailer, should be ok for now at least until i get some money saved. Speakin of, i went on over to the Happy Snatch to check it out, get to know some of the other girls and the owner asked me if i could start right away. Seems one of the girls has to take some time off, somthing about a rash and doctors orders. So i made my debut at the Snatch on Saturday afternoon. I can tell you it was pretty exciting, i think i did good, specially since Ernie the owner said he might just move me to the night shift and they only do that when you are real good and got mad skills!

Sunday was spent getting settled. Raashida already made new friends - that one is going to go places, with her dark skin and blonde hair. Guess its about time i got her off the bottle and toilet trained but i dont like fightin with her. May be someone has some tips for that, my ma is not really helpful with raising my kids - she had 7 and thinks her time is done. Cant say i blame her.

Bye for now.

Friends & Family

Wanted to post some snaps of my family and BFF's for your enjoyement.

The first one is my two BFF's - these are some special ladies - I'd go to the end of the earth for them!!!

My older brother - he's still single if any of you ladies are looking.

Time for practice!!

Enjoy!

Welcome to the world of Candy

hello all - I'm Candy - sweet candy is what my guy friends call me. my dog of a husband recently left me for our neighbor. He is 35 and she is 19. Guess he took a liking to her while i was tended to baby jesus. Raashida's daddy dont come around too often so i got both babies now and that makes it hard to get out and make new friends but i think my new job will help with that - i start dancing at the Happy Snatch next week and i am really looking forward to trying out my new moves!